Wednesday, December 1, 2021

Discover What a Godly Privilege to be Born a Man by Tabitha Biel Luak/GIVEAWAY

 


Discover Tabitha Biel Luak's new book, What a Godly Privilege to be Born a Man and make sure to enter the tour wide giveaway for a chance to win a $15 Amazon/BN Gift Card from the author. The tour is sponsored by Goddess Fish Promotions and you can find all the tour stops HERE.



Now a sit down with Tabitha Biel Luak


Fire off five words to describe your book: 

Educational, Informative, satisfying, thrilling and simply brilliant. 

 

What are you currently reading? 

My current readings are, ‘Making Peace & Nurturing Life’ by Julia Aker Duany and ‘tuesdays with Morrie’ by Mitch Albom

 

Give us an out of context quote from your book to warm our hearts: 

“If I were you, I wouldn’t cry. You know the unproved illogical ninety-nine percent belief that claims the only contribution women ever make is providing sacs for already made and fully developed people,” said the old lady. The young lady lifted her head and said, “The fact that I don’t see them doesn’t mean they aren’t being enslaved.” She turned her head back to the stepmother, who was now even further away. She held her breath and said, “What a godly privilege to be born a man.”

 

Tell us your best three sentence campfire story: 

My three-sentence campfire story is a story of pied crow and black crow.

In the story, pied and black crows are stepsiblings. However, their father loves pied crow mother more than the black crow’s mother. This gets the black crow thinking. She comes home one afternoon and turns her stepsibling to a murderer. She comes and sadly announces to her stepsibling that she just killed her mother and that pied should kill her mother too so the war between the two mothers can be denounced once and for all. Pied kills her mother. Black reveals her mother is still alive.

 

Name one song or artist that gets you fired up: 

A song that fires me up every time it comes on is ‘Through All of It’ by Colton Dixon

 

Fire down below! What’s the first object you save? 

The first object I ever saved was the lyrics of my first song, ‘Suffering’ 

 

Anything you have the burning desire to say? 

I have a burning desire to say a lot of things; however, for now, it will have to be about believing in what you are doing. The only time anyone else will have a chance of reading, listening, and potentially learning from your work is when you have become your first believer in your own work. This advice may have been given in ways but knowing that you don’t have to stop when some persons could not believe in you is perhaps one of the working keys and that worth repeating. So, believe you. 

 

Advice for newly sparking writers in three sentences or less: 

As new writers, there are so many uncertainties as far as the growth of your work. However, I’m going to stop here, just a few meters away from you so I can whisper into your ear and imagine you really are here, here is what I would whisper: the growth of your work depends on the trust and the belief you have in yourself.  And now that you have made us all believed you can write, keep writing.   

 

Which of your characters would you want to share a campfire with, and why? 

I would like to share a campfire with the old lady. I would like her to take me back in her journey. I would like to hear from her how it must have felt to have lived in a society where men have choices even as far as choosing which child they want to take and which one they can leave behind based on the health and the ability of the children. 

 

Can you briefly describe your writing process for us? 

My writing process is a bit funny. Surprisingly, it does not follow specific rules. I used to plan out when I should sit down and write.  After a while, I realized every time I set a time to write, I end up writing nothing. So, I just write whenever there are enough thoughts in my mind. And quite honestly, I write a lot whenever I have not pretimed myself or felt that I needed to write today. 

 

What is next on your writerly horizon? 

More writing in my horizon. There is nothing I love like writing right now. So, more writing and hopefully more publishing!



GENRE: FICTION / African American / General

 

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BLURB:

 

This book is inspired by true events.

 

Chosen from among the mob of her boyfriend's girlfriends, married in the most secure, respectful, and honourable way known to the people, Nyayang Jock, a girl born without a brother, won the race, defeating her top co-girlfriend, Sarah, by being the youngest over Sarah born with brothers. At the least, unlike ninety-nine percent of the girls of her generation and how they were married, it is safe for Nyayang to say she was married for love to Chuol Malual, a businessman who was born into a big, rich family.

 

Nonetheless, unlike the expectation of her in-laws, the unattended attitude of the nature secretly stabbed Nyayang in the back, leaving her to fail and creating the family Chuol and his family fundamentally paid the forty cows for. After waiting for what seemed like a decade for her to get pregnant, she gave birth to a girl, a thing that only fueled the resultant ager. Taking a long time to get pregnant and only giving birth to a girl when she should have birthed a boy called for a quick search for another wife. For Chuol's parents, this was a search for a working womb, but for Chuol it was just a search for wife number two, which he found hard now that he realized most girls showed many of the characteristics Nyayang had shown; however, eventually all displayed some problem.

 

But that all changed when he accidentally stumbled upon Sarah again, who instantly restored his manhood. Sarah not only filled Chuol's life with the boys he had been looking for, but she had her chance one more time to not only show Nyayang that it is the woman born with brothers who wins, but that the woman who has the ability to birth boys is the ultimate winner. But values-setting, worth-determining, and love are all weaknesses in society. There is only one true winner, and that is the neighbor, the seasonal enemy, the chaff buyer, the Murlen man.

 

 

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Excerpt One:

 

NBTM: What a Godly Privilege to Be Born a Man by Tabitha Biel Luak

 

 

 

WhataGodlyPrivilegetoBeBornaMan

 

FICTION / African American / General

 

There is a famous saying among the Nuer people which goes a little like this: “Every family has its way of talking and eating.” I don’t know what thoughts may pop into your mind upon hearing this saying. Personally? I see it as a universal family description—or perhaps the nature of these two things, “talking and eating,” are indeed that which differentiate us, the human race, universally

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Of course, there are other differences amongst people. And although one of the obvious differences is the colour of skin, there are also things formed with conscious intentions for the purpose of them becoming our ways of life. In most cases, although this can’t really be said about skin colour, there are persuasive goals set prior to forming a way to live. For instance, we teach children how to do well behaviourally so tomorrow is a bit clearer for them. However, within a formation, a tendency is developed. Sometimes, these tendencies come in the form of beliefs, which influence what and how we teach them.

 

Take this belief from the place I call home. Where I come from, in South Sudan, it is overwhelmingly believed that there is a difference between a male child and a female child. Of course, there is a difference. And so this difference is often exhausted and exploited to identify potential inequalities between the two. Unfortunately, the further this persists, the more limits we place on what we consider males and females to be capable of.

 

Nevertheless, humans are known to loathe dwelling in a valley of non-competitive spirit. Therefore, the only way forward is still to lean iii strongly toward one side and confidently unwrap the other side as if someone was there when she was all assembled.

 

It has always been the belief here at home, exhaustedly theorized and relentlessly practised, that one thing must be different from another. Often, to roll out one thing is enough but the other is not. In a remote way, this perception unconsciously brings us to inherently believe one is the product while the other is the producer. In other families, this way of reasoning may look a bit different; nonetheless, the derivation of the tendentious tendency in this family walks its way persistently from a claimed, precise understanding of fullness that can only be explained in four ways.

 

These involve precise understanding of the structural beauty of appearance, the strength of the structural body, the enormity of the group to which one belongs, and the sophistication or smoothness of the tongue. As a result, every response, every act and every performance revolves around these four things. Therefore, how each family teaches the two is different, for each family believes the two exist for different, unbalanced reasons. And that, unlike other families, this family eats and talks differently.

 

The stories you are about to read, with the exception of names and certain places, are real people’s stories, which, to this day, are still happening. As you flip through the pages, I urge you to ask yourself the following questions: What, then, is human? Who is human? And what does it mean to be one?

PURCHASE LINKS for WHAT A GODLY PRIVILEGE TO BE BORN A MAN        

 

AMAZON.COM https://amazon.com/dp/0228851858 

AMAZON.CA https://amazon.ca/dp/0228851858 

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Tour Wide Giveaway:  

Tabitha Biel Luak will be awarding a $15 Amazon/BN GC to a randomly drawn winner via rafflecopter during the tour.

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AUTHOR Bio and Links:

 


Tabitha Biel Luak is a South Sudanese-Canadian author. Tabitha was born in South Sudan, Africa. She relocated to Edmonton, Canada in 2011. Tabitha is a mother of two beautiful girls. She is currently taking her bachelor degree in Psychology. She is very passionate about helping her community grow. She is involved with youth in helping them reconnect to their roots by learning about where they come from. Tabitha is a gospel singer who also writes and sings songs  about social issues.

 

CONNECT WITH TABITHA BIEL LUAK

 

WEBSITE https://tabithabielluak.com/

 

FACEBOOK https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100070181181965

 

INSTAGRAM https://www.instagram.com/authortabithabielluak/

 

GOODREADS https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/21733664.Tabitha_Biel_Luak

 

TWITTER https://twitter.com/tabithabiel?lang=en

 

YOUTUBE https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLocipq1VzLO7xWepXZKfzQ


2 comments:

Sherry said...

Sounds like a good book.

Kim said...

Thank you for sharing the interview.

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